Loving and Honouring the Elderly

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“Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.”

1 TIMOTHY 5:3–4

These verses give instruction to the Church to honour widows by ensuring their needs are cared for. Although it is not always the case in our current context, widows—particularly elderly ones—often have great need economically, physically, and socially. This was validated recently as the local community food bank director in my southern Ontario affluent town informed our church that the highest numbers of clientele are widowed seniors who live on a fixed income. It made me wonder in how many other communities this is a reality and what are our church families doing about it.

This passage urges church communities to intentionally monitor the needs of widows in their midst and respond accordingly. At the same time, there is a separate challenge for Christian families to care for their widows (and yes, let’s include widowers) so the full responsibility doesn’t rest on the larger church family (see 1 Timothy 5:8,16).

How do we apply this on a personal level in our day? Too often in our culture we hear stories of neglected seniors with adult children who do not have time to care for them, let alone visit them. We also live in a society that is mobile, where families live miles, even continents apart. So what do we do with a passage like this as we see that intentionally caring
for our parents is a crucial expression of our faith that pleases God?

The principle is to ensure that our own aging parents are loved and cared for with honour and dignity. As church families, we must ensure that seniors’ needs in our community are being met, not just physically, but socially and relationally as well.

SCRIPTURE TO REFLECT ON: 1 TIMOTHY 5:3–4

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

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1. Are you aware of a senior who may not have family close by whom you could visit and encourage with practical blessings?

2. Do you have aging parents who need your support and love?


Joanne Beach serves the C&MA in Canada as the Director of Alliance Justice and Compassion.

3 comments on “Loving and Honouring the Elderly

  1. Hi Joanne…I am so glad the lent series is in operation again. The postings are of there utmost caliber and ohm the cutting edge of what we need to hear as Christians today. Your article on care of there elderly was no exception – insightful, challenging and practical…..

  2. From 2005 to 2011, my father, who had Alzheimer’s disease, lived with us, as we cared for him (he passed away in 2011). They were difficult times in many ways, but we would not trade this valuable time for the world. We feel so blessed to have had this special time with him, caring for him when he needed it. If anyone is in this position, where they need to make a similar decision, I urge you to consider this option. Yes, there will be some major adjustments, often trying times, but it is worth every second, and there are more supports in the community now, than there have been in previous times. I also urge the church, as Christian family, to support families who have made a similar decision, to care for elderly parents at home, to lift up these families in prayer and help in practical ways as well. It can be an isolating experience as well, and difficult to go through without church family support. We learned a lot from this experience, and are thankful to God for giving us this special opportunity.

  3. Thank-you Rhona and Evelyn for sharing your comments and encouragement. This journey together to discover God’s heart for justice and compassion in the everyday is certainly an enriching experience, especially when we inspire one another with our stories.

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