Best Intentions


“But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “You are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

LUKE 10:40–42

This passage of Scripture describes the conflict that many of us struggle with on a daily basis. As we listen to the news today, it’s easy to become overwhelmed with the needs of our world and communities. Where do we begin? Are we like Martha, running from one cause to another and not feeling particularly effective in any one, trying to do it in our own strength?

Martha’s behaviour shows how our pride can corrupt even our best intentions. Martha became so immersed in busyness that she took her eyes off of Jesus. Her misguided focus allowed resentment and a critical spirit to take over.

A few years ago I was involved in the founding of a compassion ministry—a residential home for pregnant and parenting teens in our town. We struggled for a number of years with funding issues and staff challenges. We prayed for God to intervene and provide what was needed to serve these young women. When we were forced to close, I felt angry. After much prayer, he gave me a peace about the situation, and I realized that while I was working hard trying to keep the home open, my focus had not always been fully on him and his plan.

Martha’s story is a reminder of what we are called to do. Yes, we need to be involved in ministries that show compassion to those around us, but we must never forget that we need to be more like Mary—to sit and learn at the feet of Jesus. When we spend time with him daily, worshipping and focusing on his Word, it will put things into perspective and enable us to serve others over ourselves.



1. Have you been relying on your own strength and plan to show compassion to others?

2. Have you ever become resentful or critical of others who weren’t serving as much or as hard as you?

Janice Buck is National Coordinator of Alliance Parish Nurses. Parish nurses are Christcentred registered nurses who work with the church to teach health education and offer health counselling, referrals, and advocacy.

4 comments on “Best Intentions

  1. Well written Janice. I like your application questions. I would add a third question.
    3. Have you ever become resentful or critical of the ones you are ministering to, when they seem to show no progress and often are negative and critical of you the caregiver?

    I still have a passion for Parish Nursing but do not foresee pursing it for another 5 years or so – maybe on retirement I will have time for this extra study.

  2. Hello…I am unsure of how the posted comments for the 40 days lent postings are accessible. I try to comment on the readings but I do not seem to see others comments or receive any reply from the writers on what I have addressed to them. Can you help me with that. This is my 2nd year of participating in the readings and have thoroughly enjoyed it again, I just miss the interchange of thought s from other readers……………….. Rhona Neudorf, a computer dysfunctional person.

    • Hello Rhona,
      When you are creating your comment, there should be a small checkbox at the bottom next to the “post comment” button that you can select to be notified of “follow-up comments via email.”

      For previous comments you had posted, you can always go back onto the website ‘posts (Lent)’ page and take a look by clicking on the ‘comment bubble’ graphic is located above the devotional day’s page marker image on the top right side of the devotional post. Note: if there are no comments posted there will not be a number displayed inside the comment bubble.

      Hope that helps 🙂

  3. Hi Rhona – I can see yours – can you see mine?
    On serving others, it is interesting to see how many people who serve, become resentful when their service is not recognized by others. Are we resentful when someone doesn’t thank us? Do we give up when no-one notices? It is good to examine our motives. I really like the saying (can’t remember where it originated), “One life, will soon be passed. Only what’s done for Christ will last.”

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